Fight to be YOU! – India White

Admin • April 3, 2018

Fight to Be You!

To fight is defined in the dictionary as “take part in a violent struggle involving the exchange of physical blows or the use of weapons.”

In life, we are all forced the deal with various winds that come our way. Sometimes, we must take a hit or two, and can feel defeated and discouraged. This can lead to us growing “cold” or “silent”, choosing to lack a drive or to surrender our passions and desires to the obvious.

As we continue to strive towards success, we have choices to make. We can choose to get up again in the face of doubt and despair, or we can wallow around in thoughts of self-pity and negativity from outside sources.  However, if we are ever going to be who we were called to be, we must strive to be unique . We must fight to be who we were created to be!  Hence, I want to take time and encourage you to FIGHT TO BE YOU! Let’s choose to fight with these components:

F: Face Your Fears! – There is nothing more tormenting than being hindered by fears we cannot see, thoughts that never surface and by people’s opinions! Think about it; how much time have you wasted waiting on people’s opinions to make a decision for you when the entire time you had control over a situation? It’s time to come out from underneath the fear of others, and be YOU! If you were created to shine a light of a new perspective, then SHINE ON! Stop worrying about what others will say or do to you because you choose to be unique! If we were all supposed to be alike, we would have been. However, life has shown us that there is flavor added with diversity and as a result, we all matter and are needed to make success happen! So, face your fears and come out of your shell !

I: Ignore Negative Voices : Choose NOT to listen to negative people, opinions or perspectives about your dreams, desires and passions. Life is too short for you to have your dreams and your uniqueness “bottled up” in someone else’s opinion of what you or your life should be. Consider how much richness you could have in every moment if you just silenced the opinions of people who you’ve given to much mental power to? Imagine how much more you could have accomplished if you would have just followed your gut and excelled the way you know you were made to instead of taking the back seat and coasting ? Stop being held hostage by negative people and voices! They did not create you; they do not know the fullness of your destiny. Hence, choose to be YOU! Get your fate out of their hands and back into yours and look up to find the true path and voice of direction for your life!

G: Get Up From Hiding! – So many times, wonderful people are limited and hindered because of others in their circle, failed ideas and dreams. This causes much depression, low self-esteem, frustration and health related issues.  Instead of accepting to embrace less than what God has for you, choose to get up and fight for what He’s called you to have! Stop suppressing your passions and dreams in fear of your adversaries! Choose to come out from hiding and express yourself again! Lift your voice and speak out what you know has been bottled up in you! You never know how your uniqueness will help someone else! Fight to be YOU and get up from hiding!

H: Hang in There – This fight will not always be an easy fight. Sometimes, you will have to give your ALL to have your voice heard. You must not back down until you’ve accomplished your desire and you can be YOU, and walk in your greatest potential. Whenever you are discouraged, hang in there. When someone else tries to knock you back into the cave, get up and fight again!  Find others who can help pull you up! Submit yourself to people who truly love you and want the best for you!  You must not die as a silent voice ; we need your creativity, passion and purpose. Fight to be you, and don’t quit until you taste the victory!

T: Take Action! –  Fighting is an action word. You cannot do this sitting back suppressed; you must press your way forward and fight for your print! March towards your uniqueness, and choose to not allow injustice or maltreatment of any kind to dominate you ANYMORE! Stop allowing everyone else to mold you into someone you were never created to be! Emulate the AWESOME version of yourself that you are you were destined to become! Stop sulking in despair and settling for less; fight to be you and SHINE FORTH! This is your season; so go ahead and make it happen !  Win the war that rages within and outside of you!  Use your weapons of positive self-talk and optimism! Fight the desire to believe the lies and negativity that bothers you. Remember, there’s only one of YOU, so be the best you that you can be!

Thanks for allowing me to have a voice in your life! Choose to WIN and FIGHT to be YOU!

 

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By India White October 24, 2025
# The Power of Grit in Mentoring: A Leader’s Playbook for Building Perseverance, Confidence, and Achievement Mentoring changes lives when it moves beyond encouragement and becomes a disciplined, relationship-centered system for **building grit**—the daily habits of perseverance that help mentees finish what they start, grow through setbacks, and become resilient, self-directed learners. In my **G.R.I.T. Framework**—**Growth Mindset, Resilience, Self-Efficacy, and Time Management**—mentors learn to coach behaviors and beliefs that compound over time. This blog synthesizes what research says about grit and mentoring, translates those findings into practical tools for mentors, and shows leaders how to implement a high-fidelity mentoring model in schools, districts, churches, nonprofits, and teams. It also points to resources in my **GRIT Workbooks** and **GRIT Trainings**, and it connects with principles from my **TEDx talk, “The Power of Grit.”** Leaders: share this with your mentor corps. Every section below includes specific actions and measurable indicators you can put to work right away. --- ## Why Grit Matters in Mentoring (What the Evidence Actually Shows) Across multiple contexts, grit—defined as “perseverance and passion for long-term goals”—predicts meaningful differences in success. In seminal studies, grit accounted for about **4% of the variance** in outcomes such as Ivy League GPA, **West Point** retention, educational attainment, and **National Spelling Bee** rankings (Duckworth 2007). Importantly, follow-up research at West Point shows that **both** initial fitness and grit significantly predict **four-year retention** through graduation, underscoring that noncognitive traits and tangible preparation work together (Wetzler et al. 2023). At the same time, the strongest meta-analysis to date urges nuance: the **perseverance-of-effort** facet (showing up and doing the work) tends to carry more predictive weight than the **consistency-of-interests** facet, and grit overlaps with conscientiousness more than early popular narratives suggested (Credé, Tynan, and Harms 2017). For leaders, the takeaway is practical: coach **repeatable effort routines** and **structured practice**, not slogans. Grit connects tightly to other malleable drivers. A national, randomized study of U.S. high schools found a brief **growth-mindset** intervention improved grades **for lower-achieving students** and increased enrollment in advanced math, **when schools provided supportive contexts**—clear work routines, challenge with care, and timely feedback (Yeager et al. 2019). A meta-analysis on mindsets also concluded that average effects are **small overall** but stronger for at-risk learners and when paired with concrete supports (Sisk et al. 2018). This is a crucial design lesson for mentoring: pair belief-shifts with **structure**. Two more pillars round out the picture. **Self-efficacy**—students’ belief in their ability to execute tasks—shows **robust, positive relations** with academic performance and persistence across decades of research (Multon, Brown, and Lent 1991; Artino 2012). And **time management** routines reliably improve engagement, reduce stress, and relate to performance, especially when defined as **specific planning behaviors** (Aeon and Aguinis 2017; Aeon, Faber, and Panaccio 2021). Newer work continues to link time-planning habits to higher study engagement via improved self-control and reduced distraction (Fu et al. 2025). Finally, **mentoring itself works**—and works best when it follows evidence-based practices. Meta-analyses show **modest average effects overall**, with **larger effects** when programs build high-quality relationships, set clear goals, and use structured activities (DuBois et al. 2011; Eby et al. 2008; Raposa et al. 2019). For leaders, that means your implementation fidelity—not just your enthusiasm—determines your impact. --- ## The G.R.I.T. Framework for Mentors (What to Coach and How) **Growth Mindset.** Mentors help mentees interpret effort and struggle as **signals for strategy change**, not signs of incapacity. Replace “I’m not good at this” with “I’m not there **yet**—what’s my next step?” Pair language with specific practice plans, because mindset effects scale **when** learners get structured opportunities to practice and see improvement (Sisk et al. 2018; Yeager et al. 2019). Three to four sentences of encouragement cannot substitute for a calendar of deliberate work. **Resilience.** Reframe setbacks using a two-question reset: **What did I try? What will I try next?** Evidence from competitive contexts shows that gritty performers invest in **deliberate practice**—effortful, targeted repetitions with feedback—even when it’s not enjoyable. In the National Spelling Bee, deliberate solo practice predicted performance better than quizzing or leisure reading, and time in deliberate practice **mediated** the link between grit and outcomes (Duckworth et al. 2010/2011). Mentors should therefore normalize “productive discomfort” and monitor the **dose** of high-quality practice. **Self-Efficacy.** Confidence grows through **mastery experiences**—visible progress on tasks. Mentors should break complex goals into **manageable skills**, track micro-wins, and spotlight progress evidence (“You solved 6/10 correctly last week and 8/10 today after switching strategies”). This is the mechanism by which efficacy fuels persistence and performance (Multon, Brown, and Lent 1991; Artino 2012). **Time Management.** Grit needs a calendar. Adopt a weekly rhythm: two to three **30-minute focus blocks**, a **review/reflect** block, and **micro-deadlines**. The literature shows that when “time management” is treated as specific planning behaviors—rather than a vague trait—benefits are clearer for well-being, engagement, and performance (Aeon and Aguinis 2017; Aeon, Faber, and Panaccio 2021; Fu et al. 2025). --- ## A Six-Step Mentoring Playbook (Leader-Ready and Measurable) **Step 1 — Define one outcome and two behaviors.** Clarify a concrete goal (e.g., “Raise Algebra quiz average from 68% to 78% in four weeks”) and two behaviors that produce it (“Complete three targeted practice sets per week; attend one help session”). Clarity fuels efficacy and execution (Multon, Brown, and Lent 1991). **Step 2 — Build a weekly plan.** Schedule **two focused blocks** and one **review block** on the mentee’s calendar. Treat practice like a rehearsal—non-negotiable and protected. Research suggests that structured planning is the tractable unit of “time management” that mentors can coach consistently (Aeon and Aguinis 2017; Aeon, Faber, and Panaccio 2021). **Step 3 — Practice deliberately.** Use **model → guided reps → independent reps** with tight feedback loops. Keep challenge just above current skill. In high-stakes learning, deliberate practice—not generic repetition—drives the gains that gritty students realize (Duckworth et al. 2010/2011). **Step 4 — Track micro-wins.** Use a single-page tracker: attempts, errors spotted, fixes tried, score trend. Visible progress is the fuel for self-efficacy, and self-efficacy, in turn, sustains persistence (Multon, Brown, and Lent 1991; Artino 2012). **Step 5 — Debrief with AAA: Acknowledge, Analyze, Adjust.** Affirm effort (“You protected your study blocks”), analyze strategy (“What worked?”), then adjust (“Next week: swap one 30-minute block to mornings”). This keeps the relationship warm and the expectations high—two hallmarks of effective mentoring programs (DuBois et al. 2011; Raposa et al. 2019). **Step 6 — Protect the relationship.** Set predictable check-ins and open with a brief relational scan (“High/Low of the week?”). Meta-analytic reviews show that relationship quality magnifies mentoring effects across domains (Eby et al. 2008; Raposa et al. 2019). Leaders should train mentors to balance **care** with **challenge** every week. --- ## Field-Tested Tips Mentors Can Use Tomorrow **Make struggle normal and specific.** Say: *“This is hard because you’re learning. Let’s try a smaller step and track it.”* Then define the step and where it goes on the calendar. This converts a mindset cue into a behavior (Sisk et al. 2018; Yeager et al. 2019). **Coach the dose of practice.** Ask: *“Show me 20 minutes of deliberate reps on the three hardest problem types, then text me your tracker.”* In competitive settings, deliberate practice time is the pathway through which grit shows its effect (Duckworth et al. 2010/2011). **Anchor confidence in evidence.** Prompt: *“Identify one place you improved since last week, and what you changed to get there.”* Efficacy grows when improvement is linked to controllable strategies (Multon, Brown, and Lent 1991; Artino 2012). **Keep time visible.** Mentor: *“Open your planner—where are the two 30-minute blocks this week?”* Mentoring that operationalizes time as scheduled behaviors produces more reliable gains (Aeon and Aguinis 2017; Aeon, Faber, and Panaccio 2021; Fu et al. 2025). --- ## Measuring Impact (So Leaders Can See What’s Working) Build a simple dashboard that blends **outcomes**, **process**, and **beliefs**: * **Outcome metrics:** course grades, attendance, certification steps completed, or project milestones. * **Process metrics:** number of focused study blocks completed; number of deliberate-practice reps; number of mentor feedback cycles per week. * **Belief metrics:** 4-item pulse on growth mindset and self-efficacy (e.g., “I can improve with practice; I know my next step”). Track weekly. Coach **behavioral fidelity** first (Did we do the blocks? the reps? the debriefs?) before adjusting goals. This mirrors what high-impact mentoring programs do at scale—focus on the controllables, then iterate (DuBois et al. 2011; Raposa et al. 2019; Eby et al. 2008). --- ## Implementation Pitfalls Leaders Should Avoid (And What to Do Instead) **Pitfall 1: “Mindset talk” without practice plans.** **Fix:** Pair every encouragement with a **specific, scheduled action**. The strongest studies show mindset affects achievement most when aligned with structure and supportive contexts (Yeager et al. 2019; Sisk et al. 2018). **Pitfall 2: Treating grit as personality, not practice.** **Fix:** Emphasize the **perseverance-of-effort** behaviors. Remember that grit overlaps with conscientiousness and works mainly through consistent, high-quality effort (Credé, Tynan, and Harms 2017). **Pitfall 3: Vague time-management advice.** **Fix:** Define time management as **two to three protected blocks + one review block + micro-deadlines**. Contemporary reviews favor concrete planning over broad platitudes (Aeon and Aguinis 2017; Aeon, Faber, and Panaccio 2021; Fu et al. 2025). **Pitfall 4: Relationship drift.** **Fix:** Train mentors to open with connection, close with commitments, and log each session. Meta-analyses consistently link **relationship quality** to larger effects (Raposa et al. 2019; Eby et al. 2008). --- ## How the GRIT Workbooks and Trainings Support Your Mentoring Program My **GRIT Workbooks** (Students, Educators, and Clergy) provide ready-to-use trackers, reflection prompts, mentor scripts, and weekly planning pages aligned with the **G.R.I.T. Framework**. The tools are designed so mentors can implement the **six-step playbook** immediately and leaders can monitor fidelity with simple checklists. In **GRIT Trainings**, teams practice coaching micro-skills (e.g., moving from praise to evidence-based efficacy), calibrate deliberate-practice tasks in core subjects, and learn to set up dashboards that blend outcomes, process, and belief metrics. I also integrate key moments from my **TEDx talk “The Power of Grit,”** tailoring examples for schools, districts, youth ministries, and community organizations. For details, **visit my website** to explore coaching, keynotes, and full implementation support. --- ## A Final Charge to Leaders Grit is not a slogan; it is a **system**—of beliefs, behaviors, and relationships, repeated weekly, measured carefully, and refined relentlessly. When mentors coach **Growth Mindset** with structure, build **Resilience** through deliberate practice, cultivate **Self-Efficacy** with visible mastery, and protect **Time** on the calendar, mentees don’t merely cope—they **excel**. The research is clear that effects are **real but modest** on average; the magic happens when leaders insist on fidelity to **high-quality routines** and **caring, high-expectations relationships**. Equip your mentors with the GRIT playbook, and watch perseverance, confidence, and achievement rise—one well-planned week at a time. If you want a plug-and-play mentor toolkit, a GRIT keynote, or a customized training and evaluation plan for your organization, reach out. I’d be honored to help your mentors—and mentees—grow strong, finish well, and shine. --- ## References (Chicago Author–Date) Aeon, Brad, and Herman Aguinis. 2017. “It’s About Time: New Perspectives and Insights on Time Management.” *Academy of Management Perspectives* 31 (4): 309–30. 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By India White October 21, 2025
How to Find and Keep a Good Man — The Workbook Now on Amazon I am excited to announce the official launch of my newest workbook, How to Find and Keep a Good Man, now available on Amazon! This workbook was written to empower women of faith to grow in wisdom, discernment, and self-worth as they navigate relationships in today’s world. Whether you are single, dating, or preparing for marriage, this guide will help you build a strong foundation rooted in biblical principles, self-reflection, and emotional intelligence. Why I Wrote This Workbook Through my years of ministry, mentoring, and personal experience, I’ve seen countless women struggle with finding balance between faith, love, and self-respect. Many desire godly relationships but face challenges such as broken trust, poor communication, or settling for less than God’s best. This workbook was designed as a practical companion to my book How to Find and Keep a Good Man. It provides tools for healing, growth, and clarity so that women can walk confidently in God’s purpose for their relationships. Each chapter includes: *Scriptures to guide your faith walk * Reflections and journaling prompts for personal insight *Prayers and affirmations to strengthen your spirit * Action steps to apply biblical wisdom to real-life relationships What You’ll Discover In this workbook, you’ll explore topics such as: * The difference between a good man and a godly man * How to identify red flags before it’s too late * Building emotional maturity and setting healthy boundaries * How to become the woman God created you to be * Keys to sustaining love, respect, and trust over time Each activity and reflection helps you deepen your relationship with God and prepare your heart for the right partnership — one that honors Him and brings peace, not pain. A Journey of Faith, Grit, and Grace This project ties beautifully into my G.R.I.T. framework — Growth Mindset, Resilience, Self-Efficacy, and Time Management. Finding and keeping a good man requires growth, emotional resilience, confidence in your worth, and the discipline to wait on God’s timing. Through faith and grit, you can attract not just love, but lasting, purposeful connection. Available Now The How to Find and Keep a Good Man Workbook is now available on Amazon . Whether you’re doing this study alone, with a small group, or in a women’s ministry, this resource will help you reflect, heal, and prepare for the love God has for you. ( https://www.amazon.com/)
By India White October 15, 2025
🚨 Exciting news! 📚 Our books have finally arrived, and orders are being shipped out! A huge thank you to the school districts and educators who have supported us by ordering their copies! 🙌 If you haven't grabbed yours yet, now's the time to get it! Don't miss out! Link- https://a.co/d/a6m9xoC ✨ hashtag#nctm hashtag#ncsm hashtag#drindiawhite hashtag#teachers hashtag#grit hashtag#Tedx
By India White October 13, 2025
G.R.I.T. Workbook for Apostolic Entrepreneurs: Strengthening Faith and Endurance in the Marketplace Faith and entrepreneurship are not separate journeys—they are deeply intertwined. The G.R.I.T. Workbook for Apostolic Entrepreneurs is a faith-driven guide designed to help believers walk boldly in their calling as business leaders, visionaries, and kingdom builders. Authored by Dr. India White, this workbook combines biblical principles with her signature G.R.I.T. framework—Growth Mindset, Resilience, Self-Efficacy, and Time Management—to empower Apostolic entrepreneurs to endure, overcome, and finish strong. Rooted in the Word of God, this workbook reminds readers that entrepreneurship is not just about profit but about purpose. Through prayer, perseverance, and discipline, Apostolic entrepreneurs can honor God with their work while transforming communities and demonstrating Christlike leadership. Each page of this workbook points believers back to Jesus—the ultimate example of endurance and grace under pressure. In this workbook, entrepreneurs will explore how faith fuels vision, how adversity refines purpose, and how resilience develops through trials. It teaches how to balance ministry and business, stay grounded in prayer, and maintain spiritual integrity while navigating competitive markets. The workbook’s exercises encourage readers to apply Scripture to real-world challenges—aligning business decisions with godly wisdom and spiritual discernment. Each section integrates powerful themes: • Growth Mindset – Renewing the mind daily through the Word and trusting God’s process • Resilience – Overcoming trials by remembering God’s promises and grace • Self-Efficacy – Believing you can do all things through Christ who strengthens you • Time Management – Stewarding time as a divine resource for kingdom impact The G.R.I.T. Workbook for Apostolic Entrepreneurs serves as a devotional and strategic planner in one. It helps readers reflect, plan, and act with spiritual confidence, knowing that God has called them to be lights in the marketplace. It emphasizes that entrepreneurship, when aligned with the Apostolic faith, becomes an act of worship—a testimony of God’s power to prosper His people and sustain them through adversity. This workbook also includes journaling prompts, faith declarations, and vision-building activities that help believers overcome doubt and keep their eyes fixed on Jesus, the Author and Finisher of their faith. It encourages readers to endure to the end, to remain steadfast, and to let perseverance finish its work, just as Scripture commands. The G.R.I.T. Workbook for Apostolic Entrepreneurs will soon be available on Amazon. Visit www.india-white.com for updates, ministry resources, and information on G.R.I.T. Academy’s faith-based leadership programs. With Jesus as the foundation, grit becomes more than endurance—it becomes divine strength in action. Let this workbook guide you in building a business that glorifies God, uplifts others, and equips you to endure until the end.
By India White October 13, 2025
G.R.I.T. Workbook for Entrepreneurs: Building Resilience and Vision in Business The journey of entrepreneurship is full of challenges, uncertainty, and opportunity. To succeed, entrepreneurs need more than talent or strategy—they need grit. That’s why the G.R.I.T. Workbook for Entrepreneurs was created. Designed by Dr. India White, this new resource equips business leaders, innovators, and founders with practical tools to build perseverance, mental toughness, and long-term success. Available on Amazon , this workbook helps entrepreneurs develop the habits and mindset necessary to thrive in today’s demanding business landscape. It is based on Dr. White’s powerful G.R.I.T. framework—Growth Mindset, Resilience, Self-Efficacy, and Time Management—which has transformed lives in classrooms, boardrooms, and leadership settings across the nation. The workbook walks readers through self-assessments, reflection exercises, and guided strategies that strengthen mental stamina and leadership capacity. Each chapter encourages deep introspection and action, helping entrepreneurs embrace growth through challenges. From managing time effectively to cultivating resilience during setbacks, this workbook provides an organized, faith-centered approach to success that aligns values with vision. Inside the workbook, entrepreneurs will find tools such as personal grit trackers, resilience maps, goal-setting templates, and strategic planning pages that link passion to performance. Dr. White’s coaching prompts guide readers to develop self-efficacy—believing in their ability to make things happen—while maintaining balance and emotional clarity in leadership. For those building startups or managing established businesses, this workbook helps refine focus, strengthen leadership habits, and increase motivation. It reminds every entrepreneur that sustainable success doesn’t happen overnight—it’s forged through perseverance, adaptability, and unwavering determination. Soon available on Amazon, the G.R.I.T. Workbook for Entrepreneurs is more than a guide; it’s a companion for your business journey. Visit www.india-white.com for updates, training opportunities, and resources from G.R.I.T. Academy that will help you elevate your leadership, strengthen your mindset, and achieve lasting results. Great Resilience in Time—that’s the foundation of every successful entrepreneur. Prepare to build your legacy with grit, purpose, and perseverance.
By India White October 13, 2025
Introducing the G.R.I.T. Workbook for Mentees — Cultivating Resilience, One Page at a Time I’m thrilled to share news of a powerful new resource that’s about to hit the shelves — the G.R.I.T. Workbook for Mentees, designed around Dr. India White’s G.R.I.T. framework. This workbook is specifically created for students working with mentors, helping them develop grit and resilience through reflection, accountability, and growth. While the workbook will soon be available on Amazon, here’s an inside look at what makes it special, why it matters, and how mentors and mentees can use it together. Why a Workbook for Mentees? Mentorship changes lives, but it works best when mentees are equipped to take ownership of their personal growth. The G.R.I.T. Workbook for Mentees bridges that gap by providing structured tools to build resilience and self-efficacy throughout the mentorship journey. It offers: * A clear roadmap for personal growth and reflection * Practical exercises for goal-setting and perseverance * Tools to track progress and measure growth over time * Prompts for deeper mentor–mentee discussions This workbook helps mentees turn challenges into opportunities and equips mentors with strategies to nurture lasting confidence and determination. Understanding Dr. India White’s G.R.I.T. Framework At the heart of this workbook lies Dr. India White’s signature G.R.I.T. framework — Great Resilience in Time. The framework teaches students how to thrive through four key pillars: Growth Mindset– Believing abilities can improve through effort and learning Resilience – Bouncing back from adversity stronger than before Self-Efficacy– Believing in one’s ability to accomplish tasks and goals Time Management– Using time wisely to achieve success Dr. White’s framework has been implemented in schools, leadership trainings, and G.R.I.T. Academy programs nationwide. The mentee workbook adapts these proven strategies into personalized activities designed to strengthen the mentor–mentee connection and support personal transformation. What’s Inside the Workbook Each section of the G.R.I.T. Workbook for Mentees is interactive and designed to make learning active and reflective. | Section | Purpose | How to Use It | |Self-Assessment | Identifies mentee’s current strengths and areas for growth | Use during first sessions to set a baseline | |Goal Setting & Reflection| Helps mentees develop SMART goals and revisit progress | Reflect weekly and discuss during check-ins | |G.R.I.T. Modules | Deep dives into Growth, Resilience, Self-Efficacy, and Time Management | Complete together or independently between sessions | |Challenges & Activities | Hands-on projects to practice perseverance | Mentors assign or co-design activities | Progress Tracking | Allows mentees to visualize their growth over time | Review regularly to celebrate milestones | The workbook ensures that each mentoring session becomes meaningful, measurable, and motivating. Benefits for Mentees and Mentors Mentees will: * Strengthen their confidence and self-discipline * Learn how to turn setbacks into comebacks * Set clear, attainable goals for personal and academic growth * Develop stronger reflection and problem-solving habits Mentors will: * Gain structured tools for meaningful sessions * Foster deeper conversations that go beyond surface-level topics * See measurable growth in their mentees over time * Cultivate a shared language around perseverance and purpose Grab a Copy on Amazon The G.R.I.T. Workbook for Mentees will soon be available on Amazon for mentors, coaches, and educators nationwide. This workbook serves as a companion to Dr. White’s G.R.I.T. Workbook for Mentors and aligns with her ongoing mission to build grit and resilience in every student. To get ready for launch: 1. Watch Dr. India White’s TEDx Talk, The Power of Grit. 2. Visit www.india-white.com for updates on release dates and resources. 3. Connect with Dr. White’s G.R.I.T. Academy for mentoring tools, training, and online courses. Final Thoughts The G.R.I.T. Workbook for Mentees isn’t just a book—it’s a movement toward empowerment, growth, and lasting change. It gives mentees a voice, a plan, and the courage to persevere through life’s challenges. Stay tuned for the Amazon launch announcement, and prepare to empower the next generation of students to rise with Great Resilience in Time.
By India White October 7, 2025
1 am excited to share that I will be a featured speaker at the NCTM 2025 Conference alongside the amazing John SanGiovanni. Together, we’ll explore the power of grit and productive struggle in the mathematics classroom—two essential ingredients for deep and lasting learning. John SanGiovanni will share his expertise on productive struggle, focusing on how teachers can design meaningful math experiences that challenge students to think critically, reason deeply, and persevere through complex problems. His work emphasizes that learning happens not when math is easy, but when students engage in struggle that leads to understanding and growth. In my portion of the session, I’ll discuss building grit through the G.R.I.T. Framework; Growth Mindset, Resilience, Self-Efficacy, and Time Management. Drawing from my G.R.I.T. Workbook for Educators, I’ll share practical tools and strategies educators can use to help students embrace challenges with confidence and persistence. By connecting grit to productive struggle, we can empower students to develop both the mindset and skills they need to overcome obstacles and achieve success in mathematics and beyond. I look forward to connecting with fellow educators at NCTM 2025 as we explore how to inspire perseverance, confidence, and a love for learning through grit and productive struggle.
By India White October 7, 2025
I am thrilled to announce that I will be a featured speaker at the NCTM 2025 Conference alongside the incredible Dr. Shelly Jones, Room 406. As TEDx speakers, Dr. Jones and I are uniting our passions for mathematics, equity, and purpose-driven teaching in our session titled Building Grit Through Culturally Relevant Math Tasks. Dr. Shelly Jones will share powerful insights from her book Culturally Relevant Math Tasks to Engage All Learners, which emphasizes how educators can connect mathematical concepts to students’ cultural experiences and lived realities. Her work highlights the importance of inclusion, representation, and authentic learning experiences that empower every student to see themselves as capable mathematicians. In my portion of the session, I will focus on Building Grit through the G.R.I.T. Framework—which stands for Growth Mindset, Resilience, Self-Efficacy, and Time Management. Through this framework, I will share strategies from my *G.R.I.T. Workbook for Educators* to help teachers cultivate perseverance and confidence in students as they navigate challenging math tasks. The goal is to help students not only solve problems but also believe they can thrive through productive struggle and perseverance. Together, Dr. Jones and I aim to inspire educators to blend cultural reasoning with resilience-building practices—creating classrooms where students’ identities and determination are celebrated equally. I’m excited to connect with passionate educators at NCTM 2025 and share how we can all build grit, equity, and excellence in math education.
By India White October 7, 2025
🌟 Exciting news! I’m thrilled to announce that I’ll be speaking at NCSM! 🎉 Join me for two informative sessions: 📚 402 How to Build a Gritty Thinking Classroom through Equity and Collaboration 🗓️ Tuesday, October 14, 2025 ⏰ 12:45 p.m. - 1:45 p.m. 📖 403 Equity Counts: Implementing Equitable Practices Across All Leadership Levels 🗓️ Monday, October 13, 2025 ⏰ 4:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. I’m ready to bridge the gap and give away door prizes, including my new book: Effective Teaching Practices Every Teacher Must Know! Don’t miss out! #nctm #ncsm #drindiawhite #grit #equity #parity NCSM: Leadership in Mathematics EducationNCTM - National Council of Teachers of MathematicsShelly M. JonesYolande Beckles
By India White October 3, 2025
✨ Exciting October Update! ✨ I’m thrilled to share that my October Newsletter is live! This month, I’m honored to be speaking at both NCTM and NCSM—two powerful opportunities to connect with educators nationwide about building G.R.I.T. (Growth Mindset, Resilience, Self-Efficacy, and Time Management) and closing the achievement gap. 💡 I’m so grateful for the incredible teachers and leaders who continue to inspire and partner with me. Thank you for the work you do every day to make an impact in the lives of students! Check out the newsletter and explore resources here: 👉 www.india-white.com Let’s keep building grit and creating equity in education—together. 💪📚✏️